I will also avoid festivities and indulgence in food and alcoholic drinks. I will observe proper etiquette11 in arranging my parents ’ funerals. I will hold the memorial ceremony and commemorate my parents’ anniversaries with utmost sincerity. I will serve my departed parents as if they were still alive.12
11 In ancient China, funeral etiquette was laid down by the emperor.
12 When my parents are alive, I should treat them with love and respect. When they pass away, I should arrange their funerals with deepest sorrow. For all the subsequent commemorations and anniversaries held, I should show love and respect as if they were still alive.